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within the Arab world.
Al-Heideri highlights three forms of persecution practiced against women22 :
1. Qualitative persecution: based on supremacy and dominance of men over women
to achieve their private and public interests. This leads to the suppression of
women’s individual personalities, undermines their social role and represses their
behavior, prohibiting integration and synergy between the sexes.
2. Patriarchal persecution-masculine: this kind of persecution manifests itself
through men’s domination over women in the family, society and authority. This
domination is expressed through male control over females, and father’s control
over mother and children in an irrational manner that necessitates their submission
and blind obedience; a boy would control a girl, even if she is older and more
intelligent than him.
3. Legal persecution: derived from patriarchal persecution, which reflects itself in
man- made laws and customs which in turn persecute women’s social, economic
and political rights, impeding their development and progress towards equality
with men.
Al-Heideri also believes that persecution of women is not due to biological, religious or
psychological factors; contrary to that, it is due to class, and social and masculine values
stem from men’s interest in controlling women and subjecting them to their will. This
is the core of gender inequality and eternal conflict between both men and women23.
Despite the developments many Arab societies have experienced, there still is a dominant
patriarchal system. The changes that have taken place within the patriarchal structure
of the Arab family system are generally superficial in content, and so the core was not
affected. What might have been affected was the shape and social cultural role of the
family. These changes have not influenced the internal relationship of the family. In fact,
violence against the marginalized categories of society for the benefit of the powerful in
terms of economic, social and political conflict continues24.
Modern developments the Arab World witnessed were first and foremost beneficial for
men, giving them new opportunities and allowing them to exclusively enjoy freedoms
and exercise their domination within the different economic, social, cultural, political and
legal levels. However, women have not received the opportunity for sufficient education
and employment to actualize themselves and change the balance of power in a more
equitable way, and so the gap between spouses and members of the family increased,
leading to tense relationships governed by power, control and exploitation, which in turn
22 al-Heideri, 2010. “Patriarchal Society and Its Impact on the Family, Society and Authority”, electronic
magazine Elaph (London; 1-10-2012).
23 al-Heideri, 2010. “Patriarchal Society and Its Impact on the Family, Society and Authority”, electronic
magazine Elaph (London; 1-10-2012) and Salim and al-Bazri and others, 1999.Arab Woman between
Reality and Liberty Aspiration.
24 . al-Heideri, 2010 .“Patriarchal Society and Its Impact on the Family, Society and Authority”, electronic
magazine Elaph (London; 1-10-2012).
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