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started work. Therefore, it is of no surprise that most youngsters kept their
relationships a secret from their elders.
Respondents noted that they rarely see any young couples on the streets,
especially in the islands, as they usually tend to meet secretly in isolated
places. This is a very significant observation as respondents suggested that
meeting in such isolated places may encourage youngsters to become
physically intimate before they are ready for such relations. Hence, the
effectiveness of parental disapproval of such intimate meetings were
questioned by many youths.
Respondents also recalled instances where children were beaten or were
grounded by their parents upon finding out about their relationships.
However, they also mentioned that there were instances where parents had
given their approval for the relationship if they approved of their child’s
partner. There were also instances where parents would simply advice their
child against such relationships and recommended them to wait until they
finish their studies. Some of the participants stated that they felt that the
conservative attitude towards romantic relationships stem from the South
Asian backgrounds where Maldivians specifically “copied the strictness of the
Indian culture”. Others believe that religious perceptions played a more
significant role in such cultural norms.
Participants stated that Islamic values clearly discourage interaction with
members of the opposite sex outside of marriage as a huge emphasis is given
to the protection of family honor and women. This aspect could support the
outraged reactions from some of the participants when they noted that some
parents are more lenient and often gave consent when boys get into
relationships as opposed to girls. In most islands, family members, especially
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