Reconciliation of religion
and LGBTQIA+ identities is
possible and common
Many Christian and other religious communities in
Aotearoa and internationally welcome and affirm
LGBTQIA+ people and actively reject conversion
ideologies and conversion practices.
Over time the Christian church, globally and locally,
has reviewed traditional interpretations of scripture
which have led to discrimination against people, for
example the oppression of women or the enslavement
of people. Scientific evidence for the natural existence
of LGBTQIA+ people is unequivocal.
Religion as part of wellbeing
Some survivors of conversion practices choose to
continue their religious practice. This usually involves
finding a new religious community that allows them to
safely reconcile their faith, or a version of spirituality
that works for them, with their LGBTQIA+ identity.
Recovery from conversion practices can involve
someone struggling with their identity and sense of
belonging. An affirming religion or faith can be central
to protecting and supporting wellbeing by providing
hope, resilience, community and affirmation of identity.
How to welcome and
protect people
Steps to welcome LGBTQIA+ people in your
community
Address conversion ideology. Examine your religious
community and consider how its teachings, practices
and assumptions might support conversion ideology.
See the resources section for support and guidance on
how to do this and what steps to take next.
Educate yourself and spread awareness. Support
and advocacy can significantly improve the lives of
LGBTQIA+ people in religious communities. You can
lead in your community by doing your own research to
understand LGBTQIA+ people and the discrimination
they commonly face. Share this with your peers and
in your community. It is important that LGBTQIA+
individuals within your community are not expected to
educate or debate with those who are questioning or
have opposing views. There are professionals who can
be paid to deliver education.
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Consider ways to show your space is safe for
LGBTQIA+ people. LGBTQIA+ people are likely to
have anxiety or fear in religious spaces and insecurities
about their place in the community. There are a range
of steps you can take to create an accepting and
inclusive environment. Clear information about your
community’s accepting stance is a simple first step
that can reassure those who may be experiencing
anxiety.
Disclosures of conversion practices
If someone discloses they are trying to change their
sexual orientation or gender identity or that someone
else is trying to change it, it’s important to listen
actively and provide validation and support for their
LGBTQIA+ identity. Give them the information that
conversion practices don’t work, are harmful and are
now unlawful.
Conversion Practices Guidance for people working in religious communities