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that of girls. They explained that such beliefs stemmed from the idea that if a
couple married and became parents at a younger age; they would be able to
take care of their children better. Surprisingly, a few participants from this
group also supported this argument:
“Our parents married and had kids when they were very
young. They brought us up well. Now we are grown up and
our parents are still strong and not that old.”47
Additionally, it was noted from all FGDs that love remained the most
important factor that fueled the decisions regarding marriage and that most
unions were forged with little external pressure on either partners. However,
a few respondents mentioned that there were some youngsters who still faced
pressure from their parents or family. If it was a girl, they are pressurized to
either get married earlier or to marry someone more mature and dependable.
Furthermore, some of participants mentioned that even now there were
people within these communities, who disapprove of unions between people
from different islands. Additionally, it was also mentioned that the culture of
arranged marriages, were still practiced in some families, especially common
among the more religiously conservative families.
When it came to the issue of unregistered marriages, while some responded
that such marriages rarely took place, many participants were able to recount
one or two cases where it had happened. The most common reason cited for
the existence of such marriages was couples eloping and getting married
overseas. Often such marriages remain unregistered due to the procedural
difficulties that arise during the registration process when they eventually try
to get their marriage registered.
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