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resentment towards children for the opportunities lost. Many among the
participants believed that education will serve to strengthen a marriage as
they believed that educated parents would know how to bring up their
children better. However, there were few participants who felt that education
was not really necessary to lead a happy married life.
Apart from this, participants stated that marrying at a younger age would lead
to higher divorce rates as they believed that most youngsters frequently
changed partners and lacked the mindset necessary to be committed to one
partner. Furthermore, many parents from the FGDs were of the opinion that
young couples would lack the necessary patience, fortitude and awareness
required to sustain a marriage.
However, there were a few participants who disagreed with these views. In
their counter arguments they stated that if the couple were mature,
independent and have planned and prepared for a married life, then it would
not be a problem. For some participants, the argument was based on the
success stories of their parent’s marriage or other examples from society.
Additionally, some participants noted that the trend of marrying young is a
common occurrence in many of the islands throughout the Maldives and is
one trend that had made a comeback in the recent times. The supporters of
this trend believe that an early marriage is better than prolonging an ‘illicit
relationship’ which may have even more unpleasant consequences. Among
these participants there were those who stated that an early marriage is
acceptable especially if the couple have been in the relationship for a long
time.
Participants from the student and youth FGs drew attention to the values and
beliefs of their parents who encouraged marriage at a younger age, specifically
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