systems to identify church ministers who violate a zero tolerance of violence and take appropriate
disciplinary action.
That is not to say that there are not already many admirable church ministers out there and many others
with the potential to play a big role in the elimination of family violence. It is simply their knowledge and
role which needs to be strengthened in order to realise that potential.
Once a public theology has been developed it will be up to the church ministers to teach their
congregation and advocate non-violence using Biblical teachings, the Fa’asamoa and human rights.
Furthermore, non-violence and healthy relationships should also be taught in Sunday schools, to reinforce
the expanded curriculum proposed in this Report. Through the Office of Family Violence Prevention a
consistency of message can be ensured.
Case Study 26: A Friendly Faifeau
Reverend Niu* is a faifeau and has been serving his village for 20 years. He does
not believe in beating kids and never has. In the early years of his service, parents
would beat their children in front of Niu and his wife. He spent years working with
them to change their minds, devoting whole Sunday sessions to the issue and
alternative parenting methods. He even worked with the Sunday school teachers
to use alternative methods than corporal punishment.
Over time he began to see an attitude change and this has also been helped by his
zero tolerance approach – if he sees parents beating their children they know he
will report them to the police. It is hard though and Niu knows he can only preach
non-violence if he himself practices it.
“In some congregations it is hard to say stop violence if the church is perpetrating
it themselves. It has to come down from the top with those people practicing what
they preach.”
Niu also sees how gender roles reinforce violence and has taken active steps in his
own life to lead by example.
“All of this violence is reinforced through gender roles – women cooking and
cleaning and men making decisions and doing what they want. I am one of very
few men in my village who does the washing and cooking and I am not ashamed
to say it. If all men try a little bit, maybe try and change the gender roles then
perhaps this will allow us to address these issues.”
*Names changed to protect the identities of those involved
Reverend Niu is an excellent example of the prevention of family violence that can occur with good
leadership within the churches, and an understanding of the nature and causes of family violence. This
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