Many children and young people told Kids Helpline
that COVID-19 and the restrictions put in place to
prevent the transmission of COVID-19 had caused
additional stress on family life.
Children and young people spoke about increased
tensions within the family due to living so closely
together, financial stress, and the lack of outside
supports and activities. Children and young people
mentioned increased arguments with parents and
siblings, and extended family members. They also
mentioned new points of argument – parents trying
to stop children and young people from going out,
young people not being allowed to visit romantic
partners, arguments about schooling and extra
financial stress.
A few young adults, who had been living away from
their families while studying or working, raised
the difficulties of returning to live with family
due to COVID-19, its economic impacts and the
restrictions.
Some children and young people spoke about
experiencing violence and abuse at home. 122
(5%) of children and young people contacted Kids
Helpline with this as a concern (including those
who did not mention COVID-19 in this context).
Some spoke about being exposed to family violence
between parents/carers, while others indicated they
had been victims of abuse and violence by a parent,
and in some cases siblings.
Some children and young people in these situations
said that the restrictions had heightened family
tensions leading to violence. Others felt trapped
and unable to run away. Some were unable to, or
uncertain whether they could, access their usual
support mechanisms when facing family conflict.
Some young people expressed worries about
being confined at home with family that do not
understand their sexuality, and who they argue
with. They were anxious about family relationships
in this context.
Some children and young people indicated that
they were living in out-of-home care, kinship, or
other care arrangements. Living arrangements were
recorded for only 790 out of 2,567 children and
young people who raised COVID-19 as a concern. Of
these, 3% indicated they were living at a residential
facility for children or young people; with foster
parents; in a shelter or hostel, or in supported
accommodation. Concerns raised in these contexts
include difficulties in relationships with their foster
family in lockdown, feeling trapped, and reduced
access to support and services.
Some young people spoke about wanting to run
away from home, and some had been planning
to live elsewhere but found that they were unable
to do this because of the lockdown. A few young
people discussed drifting between living with family
that they do not get on with, and homelessness,
a situation made harder because of the lockdown
and worsening financial situation. Some had been
homeless in the past, and others were already
couch-surfing or staying at friend’s houses.
Other children and young people spoke about their
sadness and worry at being separated from family
members due to COVID-19 and its restrictions.
For example, some children whose parents were
separated indicated that they were unable to see
one parent because of the restrictions. Others
spoke about parents, grandparents or other
relatives trapped overseas or in another state who
they were unable to see because of COVID-19 and
the border restrictions in place.
A few children and young people were worried
about relatives in hospital who they were unable
to visit due to fears of contracting COVID-19 or
because of hospital restrictions. Some mentioned
their sadness and grief at not being able to attend
funerals of family members because of the
restrictions.
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