Section 9: Looking to the future
(d) Spending time with friends, family
and pets
(e) Gaining independence and growing up
Gaining independence and more responsibility
was important to many children. They were
looking forward to transitioning to higher
grades at school, getting their drivers licence,
graduating from school, and moving out of
home. Some children said they were looking
forward to a future with their current partners
while others expressed aspirations to fall in
love, get married and to have their own family in
adulthood.
Children also commonly looked forward to
spending time with families and friends. Many
children said they were happy and hopeful to
be able to travel to see family and friends, and
spend holidays with their families again. The
ability to travel was particularly important to
children from diverse cultural backgrounds, who
may have been separated from family due to
the border closures.
Many children, across all age groups, expressed
hopes and ambitions to succeed in their studies,
have a job or a career, and be financially secure.
Some children expressed hope that they would
be able to help others and contribute to society
in a meaningful way. Other children spoke about
their dreams and goals of doing well in sport,
music, or dance, with ambitions to compete
at professional levels—plans that had been
disrupted by the pandemic.
For some younger children, the prospect of
getting a pet made them happy and hopeful
for the future. Other research supports the ‘pet
effect’ and the protective role that pets can offer
to children’s emotional wellbeing in difficult
times.54
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