the company of fellow LBT inmates. Lesbian, bisexual, and transgender
detainees in CARAGA shared that since bathing facilities are communal, they
would not bathe with other women but only with their fellow LBT inmates.
Some said such set-up is more comfortable for them.
However, in some facilities like in Bataan, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender
inmates are not only segregated, but also prohibited from any interaction
with other women except for seniors with whom they share sleeping
space. Prohibited interactions include speaking with other women,
writing notes, and sometimes even just looking at them. As a general rule,
romantic relationships are forbidden in correctional facilities but many
of the participants interviewed are able to get around this rule, devising
means to meet or using friends as bridges. Some also expressed concern
on how lesbian, bisexual, and transgender inmates, particularly those with
masculine gender expressions, are often stereotyped as flirtatious and “out
to get” younger women. This stereotype has in part led to the segregation
and the prohibition of romantic relationships.
A self-identified lesbian detained in the Bataan District Jail lamented, “’Pag
nagkaroon po kami ng relasyon dito … siyempre hindi naman po mawawala
ang humanga di po ba … nakakagawa po kami ng simpleng sulat … ’yun
po ay pinagbabawal nila at mababatas po kami. Kung magbatian po kami,
mababatas po kami. Noong nabatas po ako, pinaghugas po ako ng mga
pinggan, kaldero. Tinatawag po nilang ‘culminating works/community
service.’ Pinaglilinis po kami ng kung ano-ano. ’Yun po ba ay bawal? Pinipilit
po nila na mapagbago kami. Eh fifty-one years na akong tomboy, eh ako ba
ay magbabago pa? Hindi naman po siguro masama na ako ay humanga sa
isang babae. Kaligayahan ko po ‘yun. Inspirasyon po namin (If we engage in
romantic relationships here … isn’t it only natural to admire others? … we
write simple letters … they don’t allow that, so we get punished. When we
greet each other, we get punished. When I was punished for something like
this, I was forced to wash the dishes, pots and pans. They call these activities
‘culminating works or community service.’ They have us clean whatever. Is
that prohibited? They force us to change. I’ve been a lesbian for fifty-one
years now, would I still change? It isn’t wrong to admire another woman.
It’s a source of joy for me, it’s inspiration for us).”
The FGD with lesbian, bisexual, and transgender women in Davao Penal
Colony yielded much better results compared to other places of detention.
The LBT participants shared that they are not segregated from the general
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