and the true role and importance of the person who has entered the family is denied. This conclusion is
given further weight when considering how the perceived role has been undermined and misinterpreted
over the years. The term maupaolo is viewed as a more appropriate and respectful term than nofotane to
be given to such a person. The term maupaolo implies an elevated position within Samoan society that
reflected their importance as the provider of future heirs to the family name and accordingly lived under
the protection of that family.
Although the Inquiry did not hear direct evidence of such it was also found that this type of violence is not
the preserve of women only and men who go to live with their wives’ families (faiāva) also suffer this type
of treatment in some circumstances.
Case Study 19: Pandora’s* secret (abuse)
Pandora married her husband Tapelu and moved into his family’s house where
they went on to have two young daughters. In Tapelu’s house they live with his
parents and four sisters who are also married with children.
The situation within the household was unusual, to say the least because Tapelu’s
father had remarried and his current wife was his own step-daughter. Pandora
was aware of this but the family was not happy that she knew their secret and
started to routinely beat her and verbally abuse her while Tapelu was at work.
The violence continued and developed to the point where Tapelu would return
from work and take his family’s side, joining in on the physical abuse and also
beating his wife.
*Names changed to protect the identities of those involved.
Case Study 20: Lusia and the family bystanders
Lusia had passed the test for a College and had high hopes and expectations when
she married Siaki, a police officer. However, her world changed when she moved
into the Siaki‘s family home. Lusia was viewed as a nofotane whose role it was to
perform all the household chores from morning until dusk. Around this time her
husband started to change and when he got home from work, he would drink and
hang out with his boys. He had all the freedom he wanted as it was his family.
Lusia became pregnant but at that time there was no communication between her
and Siaki. He still acted like he did not have a care in the world, drinking and
socializing all of the time he was not at work. Lusia confronted him about his
behaviour and then the physical abuse began.